More netizens said bluntly:"Both of their original families are quite miserable. Before getting married, Sun Li even threatened to be an unmarried person. She married Deng Chao because of his father!"
What’s going on here?And who is Deng Chao’s father?
Sun Li: A rose watered by wind and rain
Before meeting Deng Chao, Sun Li had publicly stated more than once that she was aunmarried…And the reason why she is so resistant to marriage is all "thanks" to her indescribable family of origin.
In an interview program, Sun Li once generously mentioned her family. The story is also very cliché.It’s just that her father cheated on her when she was a teenager, and he wanted to divorce her mother and marry that "third party"…The story was easy to tell, but it was a devastating blow to Sun Li at that time.
Although the mother and daughter were struggling to stay,Father still left ruthlessly,Only left 200 yuan for the mother and daughter who depend on each other for lifeFrom then on, Sun Li’s father really never cared about them again.
The mother was naturally sad in her heart, but she still loved her daughter after all. In order for Sun Li to still be able to study in school like other children,Sun Li’s mother often works several jobs at the same timeIn order to barely take care of the daily lives of the mother and daughter.
Looking at my mother’s face that is rapidly aging due to overworkSun Lian was determined to study hard and let her mother live a good life! Heaven did not live up to Sun Li’s efforts. In 1997, Sun Li relied on her superb dance skillsSuccessfully entered the Shanghai Art Troupe.
This also means that,Sun Li officially became a literary soldier, which was a good job that made countless people envious at the time. It was not only an "iron rice bowl" managed by the state, but also a series of subsidies, bonuses, etc. With such a job,The mother and daughter, who had suffered for most of their lives, could finally catch a breath.
Who would have thought that at this time, Sun Li’s father, who had ignored the mother and daughter for more than ten years, suddenly appeared again.Outside the army, as a relative, he eagerly insisted on seeing Sun Li.Sun Li was very clear about her father’s virtues. She only heard that her daughter was promising and came to ask for money!
"You’re dead! No matter what you say, I can’t give you a penny, and don’t come to me in the future!"Before her father could speak, Sun Li firmly rejected him.
After two years as a literary soldier,Sun Li, who was discharged from the army, chose to develop in BeijingAt first, with her beautiful face and slender figure,Got some graphic modeling jobsThese filming experiences also paved the way for her to become an actress, and slowly she became more and more famous
In 2000, Sun Li starred in her first work, "Deep Rain".Although the drama was indeed very popular at that time, Sun Li only played a small dancer behind the main character at that time, which did not attract much attention.
And she and Deng Chao also became attached during the filming of the TV drama. After the drama "Happiness is Like a Flower" ended, the two quickly announced the news of their love.Although the two perform well in the play, the audience is still not optimistic about their relationship.
Not to mention that Sun Li’s original family made her unable to trust marriage, even the situation in Deng Chao’s family was difficult to agree with, right?And what happened later also proved that netizens’ concerns were by no means groundless.
Deng Chao’s rebellious youth
Unlike Sun Li’s unreliable father, Deng Chao’s family was particularly concerned about Deng Chao’s growth.Probably because of this harmonious and warm family atmosphere, Deng Chao developed such a sunny, cheerful, kind and gentle personality.
According to Deng Chao himself, he actuallyGrowing up in a reorganized familyAndHis father was a clerk in the museum at the time,For the family at that time, the secretary was a great job to say it out loud. Therefore, his father also has a better face, and he hopes that Deng Chao can also grow up to be a good child.
My father’s educational philosophy is also very traditional.He always believed that "under the stick comes a filial son"Every time Deng Chao was mischievous, his father would teach him a lessonHis father’s series of actions actually aroused Deng Chao’s rebellious psychology…
Dyed a head of yellow hair, pierced several ears, and spent day and night in the discotheque with a bunch of friendsSeeing that Deng Chao was about to become a gangster, Deng Chao’s father no longer dared to embarrass the childIt is better to encourage him to take the entrance exam to his favorite Beijing Film Academy.
What everyone didn’t expect was that Deng Chao really passed the exam!
Deng Chao’s parents thought their child would be on the right track, but they were surprisedThe teacher’s phone call shattered the illusionThe teacher said seriously on the phone:"Deng Chao often skipped class to go out to play, and some classmates also said that he often went to places like dance halls."
Deng Chao’s father was so angry that he immediately bought a ticket and went straight to Beijing to clean up this "bastard" himself. When he saw his son for the first time, the angry father did not say a word.He gave Deng Chao a slap when he came upAt that time, Deng Chao was still young, how could he endure such grievances?Finally chose to run away from home…
This time, Deng Chao’s father couldn’t care less about being angryHe only wanted to confirm his son’s safety. He asked all Deng Chao’s friends.I just got the news that Deng Chao went to Huizhou, Guangdong.So the worried old father boarded the train to Guangdong without stopping.
In the unfamiliar Guangdong, no one knew what kind of difficulties the father had gone through.I just found Deng Chao hiding in a small hotel…And he seemed to realize that the last time there was a problem with his attitude,This time he did not choose to quarrel or scold,Just a tired sigh:
"Go home with dad, I won’t hit you in the future."
Looking at his father’s gray hair and vicissitudes of life, Deng Chao finally grew up at that momentWhen he returned to school, he began to become very sensible, taking classes seriously and carefully studying his acting skillsAfter entering the entertainment industry, he really became a good actor.
This was Deng Chao’s entire life experience before he met Sun Li.
L To the happy Sun Li and Deng Chao
"Child, although uncle can understand your current thoughts due to your experiences since childhood, Deng Chao’s mother and I are also families that have undergone reorganization. Before we got married, we both had a child, but after Deng Chao was born, neither of us favored anyone. You can also see that our family can live a happy life. Marriage requires mutual understanding and understanding. You can choose to trust Deng Chao and try."
In fact, from the very beginning of our relationship, Deng Chao knew that Sun Li was an unmarried person.But he didn’t care about it. These wounds were caused by that irresponsible father, and had nothing to do with him.He was willing to accompany Sun Li and take care of her, even if he didn’t get married.
Deng Chao’s gentleness also made Sun Li slowly let down her guard.The hearts of the two gradually came together.
Later, Deng Chao’s father suddenly fell ill and was hospitalized. Watching Deng Chao busy taking care of the elderly, Sun Li was also very distressed, so heOffer to bring something to visit the old manDeng Chaonatural readily agreedBy the way, he told his parents what he liked about Sun Li.
Deng Chao’s parents looked at the beautiful and sensible girl in front of them, how satisfied they were.Therefore, he advised the young couple to get married and start a family as soon as possible.
But Sun LiMake it clear that you don’t want to get married now, because I am afraid that my parents will misunderstand Sun Li,Deng Chao had no choice but to tell his parents the story of Sun Li’s original familyAfter learning about Sun Li’s experience, Deng Chao’s parents were silent for a long time and said the words at the beginning of this paragraph
The sincere enlightenment of the elders finally made Sun Li’sI was shaken.Her long-term relationship with Deng Chao also made her feel that…Deng Chao is indeed a responsible manMaybe try getting married and starting a family, it’s really not that bad?
In 2011, with the idea of giving it a try, Sun Li and Deng Chao entered the marriage hall.Now they’ve been married for 12 years.The family of four is still living a very happy life.The couple took turns taking care of the children and working, and occasionally got together to celebrate anniversaries.
Once Sun Li also wrote a post late at night about Deng Chao and her, and said thatIt is a blessing to have such a husbandMany netizens offered their blessings.
Nowadays, there are really not many real couples in the entertainment industry, and there are even fewer happy couples like Deng Chao and Sun Li.I really hope that their family of four can continue to live happily ever after.
